First I will say this, I know
there are a lot of women out there who don’t like giving or
receiving oral sex. I understand that you may think that it is
dirty or like in an Asian country some women have stopped as they
think it is an evil sin. I will have to find out where this
article is and perhaps publish the web address in my next column.
Why am I writing about giving your man a blowjob in my column you
may ask, well I believe that if you please your man like he tries
to please you, then to please him will please you too. When
giving a blowjob, giving head or going down on your man, did you
know that this form of sexual gratification too could turn you
on?
Hot Blow
Job…
How do you give the perfect blowjob?
Hehehehe, blowjobs, bjs hmmmmm… good topic don’t you
think?
Giving a blowjob can be such a turn of for both parties so try it
before you say you don’t like it.
Once again
like with the guys you both need to be comfortable with it. If
you feel that it is not a clean “tool” then have a
shower together. Ladies take it in your hands, grab the soap,
lather it up and wash it, play with it, see how it responds to
your touch.
If there is room in the shower, kneel down in front of him and
look closely at it, see how clean it is, before flicking your
tongue over the tip. See how clean it is… Now you know that
it’s clean because you helped wash it thoroughly, Close your
mouth around it and feel it grow hard in your warm, moist
mouth.
Take
control and enjoy it as much as your partner!!
If you are being sensual and your partner tries to thrust causing
you to deep throat and gag when you are not ready, grab him
gently with you teeth, not tight enough to break the skin but
tight enough to stop him…
Do not
break the skin… if
you do all the romantic desires will have gone!!!!!
Ladies use your tongue, flicking it backwards and forwards as you
suck. You can do both at the same time. Trust me on that
one…
Now if you feel comfortable sucking him in the shower, get off
your knees and head to somewhere a bit more comfortable, like the
bed, continue what you were already doing but in a different
position.
Ok first if you have lube – like KY jelly handy grab that
before getting onto the bed, flavoured is great….
Have your
guy lay down on the bed, kneel between his knees, squeeze a
little bit of the lube, covering both hands…
Take his penis into your hands, see how slippery and sensual it
is, gently massaging the shaft with both hands, occasionally
teasing the head paying particular attention to the underside of
the head.
Remember
that you must be gentle that is why I keep referring to that
particular word.
Now ladies hold on to his cock, use your tongue flicking over the
head, lick the head all over and use the flat of your tongue to
cover more area, gently suck on the head, sucking it into your
mouth at the same time flick your tongue back and forwards around
the head. Pay particular attention to the Frenulum (the underside
of the penis), as it’s the most sensitive part of the glans
(the head of the penis).
Tease him
and please him at the same time, you can do it!
Run your hands over his inner thighs as you mouth moves on his
shaft. Lower your mouth over his shaft and the trick to taking in
as much as you can – to deep throat is to breath out as you
are taking him in. I know this is a big ask, but concentrate on
your breathing at the same time to avoid the uncontrollable urges
you may get. I won’t go into detail, but I am sure you know
what I am talking about.
As you suck
him deep into your mouth and with your hand around the lowest
part of the shaft pump him gently as your mouth rides his hot
swollen penis.
As a bonus for your partner with the hand that is almost free,
gently massage your partner’s testicles. Squeeze them, hold
them, run your finger nails over them – there’s that
word again “gently”, and at the same time sensually
play with them.
Now the choice is yours. If your partner is your long-term
partner and you feel you would like to taste him and swallow his
cum, then read on, if not skip this paragraph and go on to the
next… Your partner’s cock is throbbing with
anticipation as your tongue works it’s magic, you taste his
pre-cum it’s salty but nice, you wrap your hand firmly but
not too tight around his cock, with your mouth sucking him deep,
keep sucking as you pump him faster and faster… Keep
stroking him until you feel his cock throb and suddenly he
explodes sending his hot creamy cum down your throat… Look
at him and lick your lips to show how much you enjoyed sucking
his rod dry…
For the ladies who don’t like the taste, when you feel your
partner’s cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to
thrust against you, take your mouth of his penis and with your
hand wrapped firmly around his shaft pump faster and faster. Let
your partner tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him as he
gets nearer and nearer to dropping his load for you.
As he
ejaculates let him know that you are excited too. I love watching
a guy cum so as he is crying out in pleasure, if you are enjoying
it too then I am sure you will know what to do… Taking
control of your partner’s orgasm ultimately is a turn-on;
learn how to give that special blowjob as it can ultimately be a
satisfying experience for all involved.
I've been with my current boyfriend a long some time, and we've always enjoyed very good (and frequent) sex, but lately we've reached a stage where we seem to be doing the same things each time. I still have satisfying orgasms, but it's just routine. I know I always get that special excitement with a new lover, but I don't want to break up with Ted and I'm not sure if I want to be with him forever. I know it sounds really bad, but I decided to cheat on him using the Internet.
The way I see it, all the old rules of sex and relationships can be thrown away. The rulebook was created when having an affair meant you'd be caught. With the Net, I can fuck a guy I've never met before and will never meet again. It really is possible now to cheat and not get caught. A girl can have a little fun.
I set up a date with a cute guy using an online dating service. I didn't tell a soul and I was very careful to keep my real name out of my profile, or anything else that would give my identity away. I met him at Paragary's during the day while my boyfriend was at work, and he said his name was Jason, although I don't know whether it was his real name. I didn't really care, I didn't use my real name. Jason was exciting. Body wise he was similar to my boyfriend, but in personality he was completely different. He was extremely funny and outgoing. I knew I was going to go through with fucking him after only talking to him for a few minutes. He was passing through our city on vacation, touring the west coast. He had no direction, and my ambitious boyfriend would consider him a total bum. He was charming and sexy in a completely different way.
I brought him back to my apartment in midtown Sacramento even though I knew it would be a little risky, but it was closer and I couldn't wait to find out how big his cock was. We had a couple of drinks and talked about our past relationships before things got serious, but it was all a build up. Everything we talked about revolved around sex and I was so hot by the time we embraced I could barely control myself.
As we spoke he kept eying my body, especially my tits. When we embraced and kissed for the first time his hand moved up my leg and found no resistance. When he brushed up against my clit through the fabric of my jeans I spread my legs as wide as I could and moaned. I didn't want to give him any mixed signals. He had a green light and I wanted him to know it. He didn't miss a beat and began to gently massage my clit while kissing my neck and it gave me goose bumps all over. I had my first small orgasm almost right away and he started moving his hands all over my body, stopping to caress my nipples through the fabric of my blouse and bra.
He spent a long time licking my nipples and it was very satisfying. I can't get over how every guy has a different tongue. When he worked it over my clit I thought I might pass out. Jason was a lot better at oral sex than my boyfriend. He drove me so crazy that when he stood up I had trouble removing his belt- my hands were shaking. I pulled his cock out as fast as possible so he could fuck me. He had different plans though, and held me by the hair while rubbing the head of his penis against my cheek trying to guide it into my mouth.
I don't usually give head, but the way he made it seem so normal I couldn't say no. I parted my lips and he guided it all the way inside my mouth. After a couple of strokes he came without any warning, and before I could pull away he shot a good percentage of it down my throat. I've tasted come before, but this time it wasn't too bad. It was just warm and slightly bitter. He apologized as I made a funny face, but I told him it was okay as long as he stayed hard enough to fuck me.
For a guy that came so early he fucked me forever before coming a second time. I'm not sure how to describe it, but it was wonderful. Many times with my boyfriend I feel like I'm being fucked by a freight train, his cock is big and he hammers me with long hard strokes, but having sex with Jason wasn't like that. We did it in all kinds of positions and for a long time, but it was loving and gentle. I was still in a submissive role, but I enjoyed it more.
When he left I didn't have the energy to see him out the door. I just fell asleep on my couch and told him to lock up on the way out. He kissed me good-bye and thanked me for the lovely time. I woke up to a phone call from my boyfriend offering to take me out for dinner, and I had just enough time to shower and get ready. The funny thing is I found enough energy that night to have sex with him that night and I liked it better. I kept wondering if he would be able to tell that my pussy had been fucked raw just hours before, but he didn't seem to notice. The worry had my heart racing and I can't describe how much of a difference it made. It was one of the best sexual experiences of my life. It will keep me faithful for some time, maybe even forever, I don't know, but now I know what I have to do to break a routine.
Sex in the California State Capital
My name is Helen and I'm a very outgoing when it comes to sex. I have a very demanding job at the State Capital working for the State Legislature and don't have much time to meet guys. I have a lot of different preferences when it comes to men; it depends on the way I feel. Sometimes I want a romantic encounter and the closeness of being with someone, and other times I want to fuck a guy and never know his name.
Most of the men I work with (and spend most of my time with) are very sexy, but I've been down that road and I don't want to ever fuck someone I work with again. It's hard to keep things on a professional level after spending a few nights 'working late'. All guys have conquest issues; I don't care what anyone says. I actually left a company because I had sex with half a dozen guys in the building over a two year period, and I swear they all must have been taking notes and sharing them. After I let one guy come on my face, the next three I slept with wanted the same thing way too early in the relationship to be normal.
It took a new years resolution to set me straight, but it also required a plan. I started asking every woman I knew how they found their husband/boyfriends and it's amazing how many people have hooked up through the Internet these days. I asked so many questions I think a lot of women thought I was after their man and digging for clues, but it was worth it.
I considered doing many different things, but joining an online dating service seemed like the best way to go. I originally signed up on one at my computer at work and was a little scared people would see what I was doing, so I ended up putting my search off until I bought a computer for my apartment. It took a few days, and I wasn't checking to see if anyone was interested in me. When I finally logged on at home I was amazed to find out I had over a dozen guys trying to contact me. It was too easy I had a date that night- with a gorgeous guy who happened to have a huge cock. He wasn't very bright, but he sure could fuck. He was the type of guy I didn't want to know anything about. It was just a one-night stand, but it was an awesome night.
I'm now very comfortable with meeting people online and I do it all the time. So far the best guy I've met is Randy. He lives in a quiet town called Auburn about an hour's drive from my place were he works as a fireman for Placer County. He lives far enough away to be discrete, but not so far that it's inconvenient.
When we first met online we chatted for a while in a private room and described what we would like to do to each other. It was clear he had a healthy sexual appetite but wasn't into anything too freaky- exactly my type.
I was a little disappointed to find out he was married, but it wasn't enough to stop me from seeing him. Randy has an amazing body and I was very curious if he's used a picture of his own cock in one of our online exchanges. Our first time together I didn't waste anytime pulling it out and examining it up close. I'm still not sure if he used his own cock for the picture, but it was beautiful. I sucked him off and then we fucked for an hour. He was wonderful and a very thoughtful lover, making sure I got as much pleasure out of it as he did. It was so good he had me begging him to do me whenever he could get away from his wife.
I don't know how long I'll let Randy string me along, (I'm not stupid enough to think we have anything special) but for now it's a lot of fun. When I get tired of him I'll just move on to the next guy I meet online. It's not hard, and my life is a lot less complicated.
Folsom Fucker Gets Lucky
I've always been a very outgoing person, so it was a bit odd to be first one in my group of friends to try an online dating service. I'm not looking for a husband or a sweet boyfriend to hold me, and I don't have trouble finding men, but I thought I'd try something new. Everything turned out awesome and I had such a great time I have to tell as many people as I can about it. My best friend was very shocked when I told her I had done, but after she heard the story of my first encounter she went online as well.
I just came out of a serious relationship so I guess a lot of people would say my online search was rebound thing. Maybe it was, I don't know, but what I do know is that right now in my life I want to fuck as many guys as I can, and I've already noticed I can find better quality dates on the Net. It's easy to use and I don't have to worry about getting into another relationship because I don't even have to tell anyone my real name.
The first guy I met through an online dating service was 24 and he was rich and gorgeous. He picked me up in a Porche he just bought from Niello Porsche Audi and we went for a long drive that ended at his place in Folsom. I've never driven in a car that fast before and it was a thrill. We didn't really have a plan for where we were going or anything, but I started things off by running my hand up the inside of his thigh while he drove and he took the hint.
We ripped each other's clothes off inside his house in Lexington Hills and to tease him I did a strip show on his couch, playing with my pussy and telling him he couldn't come near me until I told him he could. He watched intently as I fingered my pussy and I noticed a large bulge appear in his crotch. He wasn't silent though the show though, he asked me to do things and it was very erotic. He seemed particularly interested in getting me to lick my fingers after playing with my clit. When I finally told him he could touch me he pounced and I was very close to my first orgasm.
It was exhilarating. The first thing I did was push his head between my legs and he lapped my clit with his tongue only a few times before I exploded all over her face. The heat from his mouth was incredible, and it was mixed with a slightly cool breeze from his heavy breathing. I came with such a rush it was a good thing I lying on my back, otherwise I probably would have collapsed.
Once I was taken care of all hell broke loose. He got naked and we fucked like we were the last two people on earth. He kept me on the edge of my second orgasm for almost an eternity and it was driving me crazy, then he increased the tempo when he was close. His timing was perfect. We came together and it was a wonderful sensation.
I hung around his place in Folsom the whole day, we watched some movies and he made dinner for me. It was very comfortable to be around him, and it was obvious he knew I wasn't interested in him seriously. We ended up doing it all over again, only instead of on the couch we made it to his bedroom. He was such a good lover it was like we could read each other's mind.
The second time he was very slow and methodical, it was very romantic. At times I tried increasing the temp by gyrating my hips, but he was one step ahead of me with every movement and prolonging my orgasm made it a lot better.
The next morning he dropped me off in Sacramento where we started our date. I think I'm going to get him to fuck me again, but already I've made so many dates online I've kind of got a full schedule for the next couple of weeks. We'll see how things turn out. I hope your readers enjoyed my story. I know I enjoyed living it.
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